Found this post on the Star Wars: The Old Republic forums: Link Anyways here’s my response (page 4 if you plan on reading the entire thread):
Quote: Originally Posted by Ghostscore
I do ask for some constructive reply’s, not short 2 word reply’s. I am trying to get this all on paper for a project (non-school related) that i am working on trying to get gaming addiction on the map, as scientificly, people are stil debating heavily on wether it is a valid addiction. Wich i believe is, as a gambling addiction is seen as a valid one too. and i think a gaming addiction is similar to a gambling addiction
I’ve heard of ‘video-game’ addiction, and seen the effects of alcohol, drug and gambling addictions. I don’t believe in video-game addiction as much as I believe in sports addiction, or car addiction, or reading addiction. Putting video-game addiction in the same sentence as alcohol, drug, gambling addiction is wrong. Those are substance abuse that cause major bodily harm to the host as well as emotional, physical, and monetary damage to those around them.
Quote: Originally Posted by Ghostscore
To name an example. In asia a baby died, cause the childs parents neglected the child. The fact was, that they simply were to busy BOTH playing World of Warcraft. Wich they thought was more important then their child.
How many children die due to neglect from their drunken, high parents? Yes it is sad to see a child die because their parents neglected them while playing a game. These parents could have left the child inside a car while they went to lunch, shopped, work, or went to a bar and got shit faced and forgot they had a baby.
Quote: Originally Posted by Ghostscore
Also, several people had break-ups, or divorces. One quote that i could give you as an example, how your spouses feel like when you play to much Quote:”He would get home from work at 6:00, start playing at 6:30, and he’d play until three a.m. Weekends were worse — it was from morning straight through until the middle of the night,” she told Yahoo! Games in an interview. “It took away all of our time that we spent together. I ceased to exist in his life.”
How many divorce cases have happen because of a partner drinking themselves to the hospital, or here’s a new one; they were workaholics. “He would get home from work at 6PM, but the work day didn’t end for him then. He’d work until midnight and finally come to sleep, and wake up the next morning at 6AM. Rinse and repeat.” I believe that video games are a hobby and those that have addictive personalities use gaming as a mean to escape. Would you rather a parent see their child in the safety of their own home than in the dark alleys crawled up puking, or passed out with a needle in their arm? Couples break up over many things, and gaming was just a way for one of them to leave because there was something already wrong in the relationship.
Quote: Originally Posted by Ghostscore
You said you playED like that. So im assuming you are not anymore? If so, how did you overcome this?
You overcome it by quitting, by being “strong” and leaving the game. If you can’t do that then you’re lucky as hell you were “addicted” (as you think it should be called) to WoW than drugs, alcohol, or gambling. In these stressful times people need to escape from their lives and video games give them a safe way to do that. Should we put a stopper on euphoric moments? I don’t think so. Is it healthy to sit at ones computer for 18 hours a day? Of course not, but there are many jobs are out there created for computer, and demand that they sit at their desk working at computers all day. We don’t live healthy lives, period. The work day never ends for most people, and those that find a way to escape it are lucky. Personally I’ve played my fair share of exam-crunching all nighters, but also gaming all nighters. The ones that I’ve gamed through have been with friends and e-friends. I’ve also drank my fair share of beers, bottles of alcohol and to be honest I rather be at my computer than having a hangover the next morning and stumbling into work because I went out with my friends, even though we were sitting on their couches playing NHL before, arriving to the bars.
Life is about balance. Not many have achieved it.